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Book Flight – Find Your You-Shaped Space

Book Flight – Find Your You-Shaped Space

Whether these books are old friends or new acquaintances, savor the ideas included in this book flight the way you might enjoy a flight of chocolate or fine cheese. How might slowing down and sampling a range of ideas in relation to one another reveal new insight?

Mary Alice Operator Number Nine Cover

MARY ALICE OPERATOR NUMBER NINE

Jeffrey Allen

 
PAGE THROUGH FOR:

Laughter * Encouragement * Whimsy

A LINGERING NOTE:

“Dear Mary Alice, No one can do the job the way you do, not even me. Welcome back to work. Signed, Nancy Chicken, your grateful boss.”

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STEAL LIKE AN ARTIST

Austin Kleon

 
PAGE THROUGH FOR:

Practical Strategies * Renewed Creative Energy * A Fresh Mindset

A LINGERING NOTE:

“A wonderful flaw about human beings is that we’re incapable of making perfect copies. Our failure to copy our heroes is where we discover where our own thing lives. That is how we evolve.”

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DEAR GENIUS

edited by Leonard S. Marcus

 
PAGE THROUGH FOR:

Stories of Fellow Writers and Artists * Common Sense Reminders * Encouragement

A LINGERING NOTE (NORDSTROM TO MAURICE SENDAK):

Sure, Tolstoy and Melville have a lot of furniture in their books and they also know a lot of facts…but that isn’t the only sort of genius, you know that. You are more of a poet in your writing, at least right now … You write and draw from the inside out—which is why I said poet.”

TOGETHER:

A powerful reminder that there’s only one you. By viewing yourself in relation to others, you gain perspective on the unique qualities that make your voice your own.

Book Flight
I’M LEFT CONSIDERING:

Which artists do I resemble in genre, tone, and sensibility? What might I learn about my creative voice by reflecting on our similarities? What might I learn from observing our differences, especially when it comes to the nuances of what we each have to offer? 

HEADS UP!

Secret passageway below ↓↓↓

 

Creative Lift 001 – Drop a You Are Here Pin

Creative Lift 001 – Drop a You Are Here Pin

When was the last time you were swept up in the wonder, joy and thrill of a creative project? What if we didn’t have to wish, hope, and long for flow? What if instead, like a hot air balloon tethered in our backyard, we knew exactly where to find it? 
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Locate Yourself with this Q&A Tool

Locate Yourself with this Q&A Tool

Book Flight – Live Your Epic Story

Book Flight – Live Your Epic Story

Whether these books are old friends or new acquaintances, savor the ideas included in this book flight the way you might enjoy a flight of chocolate or fine cheese. How might slowing down and sampling a range of ideas in relation to one another reveal new insight?

The Hero is You

THE HERO IS YOU

Kendra Levin

PAGE THROUGH FOR:

Perspective on the Creative Journey * Inviting Exercises * Encouragement

A LINGERING NOTE:

“When you have a passion for writing that compels you to create, you live in a constant state of rigorous exploration. Each project begins a new adventure and a new opportunity to push your boundaries, and discover hidden layers of riches inside you.”

The Hero is You

WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A PROBLEM

Kobi Yamada

PAGE THROUGH FOR:

Whimsy * Narrative that Echoes Life * Growth Mindset

A LINGERING NOTE:

“When I got face to face with it, I discovered something. My problem wasn’t what I thought it was. I discovered it had something beautiful inside.”

The Hero is You

THE WAND IN THE WORD

edited by Leonard S. Marcus

PAGE THROUGH FOR:

Conversations with Fantasy Writers * View of Deeper Layers in Story * Magic

A LINGERING NOTE:

“Fantasy allows you to step outside our world and look at it with a bit of perspective. It can take something in our world , for instance ‘identity,’ which has only an abstract reality, and it can make it palpable…Corinna thinks she’s a Folk Keeper but she’s really a seal maiden…There’s a connection between the inner story—the story of who she is—and the outer story—the story of her physical identity.” – Frannie Billingsley

TOGETHER:

An invitation to see life’s ups and downs as part of what makes the story memorable and meaningful.

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I’M LEFT CONSIDERING:

How might I keep the inner story, the one that reveals the hidden layer of riches inside me, more visible? How might I lean into the beauty inside my challenges, elevating everyday experiences so that I feel their true value more fully in real time rather than only in hindsight?

HEADS UP!

Secret passageway below ↓↓↓

Step Into Your Story and Play Your Way Through

Step Into Your Story and Play Your Way Through

Writerly Play allows you to personalize, map, and problem-solve your creative process. The invitation is to step into the story of your creative development and to play your way through. Creativity requires you to venture into uncharted territory. What if, instead of feeling like you were always in the messy middle, you could use story as a map?

 

The map of your process might look like this:

You can see your story as a set of nesting dolls:

the story of your week

inside the story of your current project

inside the story of this season of creative growth.

When you’re feeling lost, it might be time to narrow your focus or, on the other hand, time to zoom out. Either way, by looking at the story from a different vantage point, you’re likely to gain new perspective. When you imagine life this way, and visualize yourself as a traveler on a journey, you’re already using a playful mindset.

What if we took play a little further?

What if we used visualization and storytelling to see the different kinds of thinking required in the creative process, and to furnish and style mental rooms for each one?

Picture a studio, filled with toys and space for ideation, next to a workshop with a well-organized toolbench for crafting beauty out of that mess of possibilities. And how about rooms for reflection, learning, and collaboration, too?

Like story, play is a tool that works big picture and also in the fine detail. A quick warm-up game can shift your Tuesday morning energy from “I can’t,” to “Let’s see where this question may lead!” Each of those mental rooms can be stocked with a range of playful tools that invite you to approach the task at hand with a sense of curiosity and wonder.

And courage.

When we dig down to what’s at the heart of Writerly Play, when we ask ourselves what’s possible and what’s at stake, the answer is: the beautiful and unique work that only you can make.

Doing your real, wholehearted, brave work requires you to set down your armor. For me, when it’s time to walk unarmored into the dragon’s cave, I choose play over perfectionism as my tool of choice to face that fiery beast.

Writerly Play invites you to play your way to the page, courageously, wholeheartedly, boldly. Just like the main character of any worthwhile story, you can count on facing challenges. Real ones. And when you push on through, those of us cheering you on will celebrate and then lean in asking, “What’s next?”

If you’re just starting to explore Writerly Play, welcome! And in case you’re excited about the possibilities and wondering where to start, here’s an excellent place to begin.

In love and creativity,

Naomi

Use Story as Your Compass Through the Creative Process

Use Story as Your Compass Through the Creative Process

You already know how a well-told story feels. That same pattern, the pattern of story, can be your real-world compass. You are the hero. Your creative development is the plot.

Curious to see how story can be a compass through your creative process?

 Join me for a 15-minute Writerly Play experience that guides you step-by-step into your own story, defogs whatever you might find there, and points you toward sure-footed momentum.

Here’s how to make the most of this Writerly Play experience.

STEP ONE:  Grab a notebook and pencil, and head somewhere quiet where you can watch the video.

STEP TWO: Use your insights to design a Writerly Play prototype.

STEP THREE: Below, let me know where to follow up with you. As I mention in the video, this activity is a first step into a larger story. Over the next few weeks, we’ll walk together through steps to refine your prototype. In the longer term, you’ll receive experiences, coaching, and tools to support you as you tap into that next-level potential of yours. 

How to Make Your Kidlit Career Success Inevitable

How to Make Your Kidlit Career Success Inevitable

What does kidlit career success look like to you? The first question I ask students when we start a new book publishing project at Society of Young Inklings is: What will make you feel like a published author?

At first, they might tilt their head in confusion, or they might grin and say, “When I sell a million books!”

Then, when we dig deeper, we find that they might hope for:

  • Seeing a reader with their nose buried deep in the book
  • Giving a book talk at their favorite bookstore — with readers in the crowd asking genuine questions
  • Reading a real (and positive) review from someone other than their mom or best friend

Over time, I’ve learned many lessons from these conversations, lessons that I’ve taken to heart with regard to my own writing career.

Here are three reasons to paint a clear picture for yourself of kidlit career success:

1. A vague definition of success leads to dissatisfaction.

When we set out to achieve a goal, a misty idea of “I don’t know what I want, all the good things,” can lift our hearts and spark our imaginations. As the prism of possibilities shifts into shape after shape, excitement shivers through us. Ooh, and maybe this might happen. Or maybe that …

Later on, that same openness leads us to say, “Yeah, that happened, but what about …” The minute we cross one finish line, we dismiss it because we’re now focused on the next. Or, we obsess over one beyond-our-control goal—say, winning the Newbery, and instead of taking action, we wait and wish and ultimately, give in to discouragement. Who did I think I was, anyway?

2. Clear goals, within our control, focus our efforts (and the efforts of our supporters).

When we know that success might look like giving a book talk at our favorite bookstore, we can then identify the challenges between where we are now, and where we want to end up. Maybe we need to practice answering questions on the fly, or we need to network to find someone who knows the bookstore owner.

Also, when people ask us how they can help, our answers are more specific. Maybe we’d appreciate our friends and family ordering the book in that particular bookstore, so that our title is top-of-mind when we follow up with our ask. Perhaps we’d prefer that they put their energy toward saving the date for our event, and inviting a friend.

3. Success feels more meaningful in small, relational moments, rather than in pie-in-the-sky impersonal wins.

What will it feel like when your 10,000th book sells? Will you even know it happened? How about receiving a fan letter from a reader who was so inspired by your book that they started writing their own? Or, what if your writing mentor reaches out, completely out of the blue, to tell you how much they loved your book and how proud they are of you?

Sales goals, winning a big award, or landing a movie deal, may seem like meaningful goals. However, in my day-to-day experience, letters from readers and feedback from people I admire have a bigger impact on my overall happiness and motivation to keep writing.

Here’s what dreaming and then achieving a specific success looks like:

At a recent kidlit night out, I found myself beaming as I told my author friends, “Society of Young Inklings is collaborating on a contest with Stone Soup!”

I’ve loved Stone Soup magazine since I was a young girl. For me, designing video lessons and teaching on camera to help youth put their best foot forward when entering a big-deal writing contest is exactly what success looks like. In fact, about ten years ago I wrote my dreams, defining what success as a kidlit author and as founder of Society of Young Inklings might look like. Working with Stone Soup was high on the list.

What does kidlit career success look like for you?

Try this. List all your dream scenarios, even the one about sailing away on a yacht and never working another day in your life. It won’t take much more than a scratch beneath the surface to get to the substantial dreams, the ones that truly light you up. You may even realize that you’ve been measuring your success against a goal that isn’t your heart’s desire. I mean, if you could sail away on that yacht, how long would you sleep and sunbathe before becoming a little restless? At what point might you start dreaming up your next novel?

Inspire us! Share items on your success bucket list, because you know your ideas will spark all of our creativity and resourcefulness. You never know, by putting it out there in the world for all to see, you may just take the next leap toward that dream.

In any case, if you share tag me on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram so I can support you and cheer you on.

The Difference Between Creativity and Ideas

The Difference Between Creativity and Ideas

Have you said (or thought) something like this recently?

“I have plenty of ideas. I don’t need more creativity.”

“Creativity isn’t the issue for me. What I need is progress.”

“Creativity is actually my biggest problem. I’m always chasing whatever is shiny and new and never finishing.”

If so, you aren’t alone. I’ve been hearing this sentiment from writer friends and students often over the past several months.

I’ll be honest. When I started hearing these comments, I felt flummoxed. What in the world did these writers mean: “I don’t need creativity?” Fortunately, I was stunned speechless. Instead of arguing my own point of view, I listened to their explanations.

They continued:

“I need to develop my writing craft—you know, character arc, subtext, tone, things like that.”

“I’m trying to be more consistent about writing regularly.”

“I’m studying other writers’ work and learning from them.”

Okay, I thought. We’re clearly defining creativity differently. To me, creativity is the full set of emotional, intellectual, artistic, and physical skills required for starting, developing, problem-solving, and finishing a project. For others, creativity seemed more narrowly focused on starting a new project or generating new ideas.

I would have left the point unchallenged—I call it creativity, you call it something else. However, many of these same writers added:

“I don’t need to play. I need to work harder.”

Nope.

If the issue were semantics, I’d accept that creativity is a word that has lost its richer meaning because of how often it’s thrown around these days. I’d find a different word to capture the robust set of skills writers need to thrive artistically.

However, if the underlying assumption is that growth comes through clenched fists, gritted teeth, and painful effort, I absolutely must object. These writers are getting in their own way. The most likely result from “trying” to achieve something is to try for years and years. Or in other words, you spend so much time trying, you never do the thing you mean to do.

Here’s an example.

I’m not a natural actor. So, when I started my BFA in Acting, I buried my nose in books. I could have elaborated ten different ways to show a character’s thoughts and emotions through gesture. I understood the concept so well, I orchestrated my movements. As a result, I resembled a hula dancer running through planned movements rather than a real person reacting to my scene partners. My effort kept me from letting go. Over time, I discovered what that whoosh of moving into true creative space felt like, and slowly learned to get out of my own way.

I learned the way most actors do: through play.

When I say I learned through play, I mean I learned to breathe, walk, speak, memorize, and more through games. I also gained my understanding of character motivation, relationships, action, reaction, gesture, pacing and other advanced story concepts by stepping into creative space and following a game where it led. I did read many books which prepared my mind. However, on their own, the books never would have been enough. The games were where my learning experiences—from basic concepts to nuanced discoveries—actualized.

As writers, we don’t learn our craft this way.

We learn to read, analyze, ask questions, think, form sentences, shape characters, worlds, and plots. We learn to think as a writer. Unless we’re very fortunate, no one teaches us to step into creative space, to let go. If we are taught to let go, it’s in the context of brainstorming or generating ideas. Once it’s time to revise, receive feedback, learn new skills, or problem-solve, we settle into our writer’s chair and let our intellect run the show.

Thus, when we hit a block, such as discovering our characters are hula dancing instead of transforming into living, breathing characters on the page, our minds kick into overdrive. We make plans, set goals, toss around accusations about all the ways we’re failing, bully ourselves into working hard.

If you’re learning writing craft, strengthening your writing consistency, analyzing strategies in masterworks, building your courage for receiving feedback, or developing other challenging creativity skills, first of all, you’re on the right track. You’re tackling the meta skills that go far beyond the current book you’re writing. In the same way that actors learn to breathe and walk, you’re mastering foundational tools that show up every time you write, whether you think about them or not. Secondly, to move these skills from your mind into your subconscious, you must practice them.

One way to practice, of course, is to write.

 

However, many writers are in the habit of writing with their minds. They labor over each sentence and word, rarely losing themselves in the practice or the flow of the story. Two problems emerge. First, the story lacks the energy and passion the writer knows it can have. Second, the writer’s creative skill set languishes. Stamina, courage, spontaneity, vulnerability—to name a few—simply don’t grow at the rate they might otherwise.

Another way to practice is to play.

Games offer quick application opportunities. They offer a low-resistance way into tasks that are otherwise “hard work.” When you play a game, you often spontaneously find yourself opening up and tapping into vulnerable places in your heart. In short, play takes you where you need to go quickly, effectively, and deeply.

Especially when you are frustrated, stretched for time, or blocked, I realize that opening up to play can be a stretch. To begin, I recommend choosing a simple game, giving yourself a quick win against a significant pain point.

Here are a few games you might like to try:

Tap Into the Heart of Your Story

Experiment with Options for your Next Scene

Quick Storyboard Your Plot for a Big-Picture View

Develop Creative Thinking Skills with the Writerly Play Kit

Develop Creative Thinking Skills with the Writerly Play Kit

Psst! If you haven’t yet subscribed to the Writerly Play Kit, you’re missing out! Issued monthly, the WP Kit is a collection of activities, book recommendations, and other inspiration to help you develop creative thinking by focusing on a single skill.

Why one specific skill?

As is true for building physical muscles, you can develop creative thinking mastery much more efficiently when you’re intentional. When you focus on one skill, you:

  • progress more quickly with less friction
  • build momentum and the confidence that comes with success
  • make that skill a habit so that you can turn your focus elsewhere without losing ground

Wait … Creativity is a skill?

Yep, actually creative thinking is a collection of skills. A commonly held misbelief is that people are either creative or not. If I had a penny for every time someone has told me they’re “just not a creative person,” I’m pretty sure I could buy a private jet. One reason this myth is so prevalent, in my opinion, is that people focus on one aspect of creativity when they measure their capacity. So, they might think of creativity as the ability to generate a giant collection of ideas, or to craft a well-told story, or think quickly on the spot.

This narrow thinking often creates one of two problems.

First, a person might not be good at that thing. Maybe they struggle to come up with even three ideas, or they always figure out what they should have said hours after the moment has passed. Thus, they conclude that they aren’t a creative person without noticing other skills they DO have that are also key to creative thinking.

Second, a person may have a strength in one of these areas. When they’re asked to be creative, they play only this one note. When the process moves on to another stage, they may not have the next skill needed, and they get stuck. They may undervalue the importance of developing their creativity because they don’t realize that they are actually bumping repeatedly into a weakness in their overall skill set.

The way to develop creative thinking is through marginal gains.

In his book, Atomic Habits, James Clear shares the concept of marginal gains. Basically, when you improve through marginal gains, you make tiny changes, changes that might seem insignificant on their own. However, taken together, the collection of changes lead to overwhelming transformation. Becoming better at asking questions may not feel significant at first, but taken together with an improved ability to identify problems and generate ideas about possible solutions, soon you start to see fresh, exciting creativity coming to life in your world.

What are your strengths when it comes to creativity? How about areas that get in your way? What if you had clear, step-by-step strategies and a bookshelf of tools to overcome those challenges?

That’s exactly what the Writerly Play Kit is here to do for you.

So what are you waiting for?

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How to Improvise: A Book Flight

How to Improvise: A Book Flight

For a long time, I didn’t understand improvisation. I thought it was the art of being hilarious on the spot, and the thought terrified me. When I (finally) dared to learn more about improv, I learned that improvisation was, in fact, terrifying, but not for the reasons I first believed. To improvise well, a player must let go and step into the unknown. In improv, we must listen to our fellow players, say yes to their ideas and add our own.

Improv taught me that play invites us to see past our masks and defenses to the truth of who we are. In spontaneous flashes, we tap into our intuition and discover that we know a lot more about the human experience than we might at first believe. Once I saw the transformative power of improvisation, I was hooked. I’ve been studying the art of improv ever since. 

This book flight offers a variety of perspectives on the art of improv. The four titles include activities, games, stories, and of course, wisdom from master teachers on the art of saying, “Yes, and …” While I love each of these books individually, I love the four together even more, because of the ways they spark up against and illuminate one another.

How to Improvise: A Book Flight

Improvisation for the Theatre by Viola Spolin

When I encountered Viola Spolin’s thinking, and then put those principles into practice while training at Piven Theatre Workshop, my trajectory as an artist transformed. Spolin taught me to stop trying and to start experiencing. She taught me the value of opening my hands and letting go, rather than insisting on controlling the creative process. Through her instruction, I learned that developing a player’s mindset takes practice, and that the time invested is entirely worthwhile. Improvisation for the Theatre contains a wealth of wisdom on the craft of creativity and the art of wholehearted living. No matter your art form, this book is a must-read (and re-read!)

Learn more here.

The Creative Habit: Learn It and Use It For Life by Twyla Tharp

When I think of improvisation, my thoughts first go to acting games or quick-drafting exercises. Twyla Tharp offers an entirely different vantage point as she describes improvisation from a choreographer’s point of view. So much is the same, and yet, the slightly different perspective helps me see my own work in new light.

Learn more here.

How to Draw a Clam by Joy Sikorski

Filled with drawing prompts, adventure prompts, and games, this book is entirely unlike any book you’ve seen before. What struck me is how Joy Sikorski teaches the reader, without ever explicitly saying so, how to improvise your way through life. Flipping through this small book infuses my day with spontaneity and joy.

Learn more here.

Pippi in the South Seas by Astrid Lindgren

Remember Pippi? When I thought about what fiction I wanted to include in the improvisation book flight, Pippi and her red braids came immediately to mind. This book is an excellent example of what it might look life to live a life filled with “yes, and …” thinking. When I find myself in need of a reminder to lighten up and be a little more adventurous, I tap into my inner Pippi Longstocking and dive exuberantly into my day.

Learn more here.

If you pick up the books in this flight, I’d love to hear what you think. Try out some of the improv activities, and let me know how they go. And please share your ideas for other titles that ought to be part of this flight. I’m always on the hunt for an excellent read. Tag me on Twitter or Instagram, and let’s chat. Happy reading!